Read this article, which explains interpersonal communication. Consider
the ways in which you can apply this knowledge in your own interactions.
2. Theories
2.3. Symbolic interaction
Symbolic
interaction comes from the socio-cultural perspective in that it relies
on the creation of shared meaning through interactions with others.
This theory focuses on the ways in which people form meaning and
structure in society through interactions. People are motivated to act
based on the meanings they assign to people, things, and events.
Symbolic
interaction considers the world to be made up of social objects that
are named and have socially determined meanings. When people interact
over time, they come to shared meaning for certain terms and actions and
thus come to understand events in particular ways. There are three main
concepts in this theory: society, self, and mind.
Society
Social acts (which create meaning) involve an initial gesture from one individual, a response to that gesture from another, and a result.
Self
Self-image comes from interaction with others. A person makes sense of the world and defines their "self" through social interactions that indicate the value of the self.
Mind
The ability to use significant symbols makes thinking possible. One defines objects in terms of how one might react to them.
Constructs
for this theory include creation of meaning, social norms, human
interactions, and signs and symbols. An underlying assumption for this
theory is that meaning and social reality are shaped from interactions
with others and that some kind of shared meaning is reached. For this to
be effective, there must be numerous people communicating and
interacting and thus assigning meaning to situations or objects.