Read this article, which explains interpersonal communication. Consider
the ways in which you can apply this knowledge in your own interactions.
2. Theories
2.5. Coordinated management of meaning
The
coordinated management of meaning theory assumes that two individuals
engaging in an interaction each construct their own interpretation and
perception of what a conversation means, then negotiate a common meaning
by coordinating with each other. This coordination involves the
individuals establishing rules for creating and interpreting meaning.
The rules that individuals can apply in any communicative situation include constitutive and regulative rules.
Constitutive rules are "rules of meaning used by communicators to interpret or understand an event or message".
Regulative rules are "rules of action used to determine how to respond or behave".
When
one individual sends a message to the other the recipient must
interpret the meaning of the interaction. Often, this can be done almost
instantaneously because the interpretation rules that apply to the
situation are immediate and simple. However, there are times when the
interpretation of the 'rules' for an interaction is not obvious. This
depends on each communicator's previous beliefs and perceptions within a
given context and how they can apply these rules to the current
interaction. These "rules" of meaning "are always chosen within a
context", and the context of a situation can be used as a framework for
interpreting specific events. Contexts that an individual can refer to
when interpreting a communicative event include the relationship
context, the episode context, the self-concept context, and the
archetype context.
Relationship context
This context assumes that there are mutual expectations between individuals who are members of a group.
Episode context
This context refers to a specific event in which the communicative act is taking place.
Self-concept context
This context involves one's sense of self, or an individual's personal 'definition' of him/herself.
Archetype context
This context is essentially one's image of what his or her belief
consists of regarding general truths within communicative exchanges.
Pearce
and Cronen argue that these specific contexts exist in a hierarchical
fashion. This theory assumes that the bottom level of this hierarchy
consists of the communicative act. The relationship context is next in
the hierarchy, then the episode context, followed by the self-concept
context, and finally the archetype context.